Over the last few weeks I’ve received quite a few ‘how’ questions from readers and clients.
- How do you get it all done?
- How do you write every day?
- How do you deal with writer’s block?
- How do you get new clients?
- How do you grow your business?
There are more….but they don’t really matter. I mean, they matter, but the details don’t – because these questions are all basically asking the same thing: “how do I/you/we keep going when it gets hard”.
Of course, I can only answer how I do it, how I make it through adversity, through the uphill climbs. I can’t possibly answer that for you.
But, I’ve been thinking about this a lot – my answers to these how questions, and found some insight this morning on my run.
I have a love/hate relationship with my usual loop – because the first 3 miles or so are just excruciating. For the most part, they are flat and straight. There isn’t even an ocean view. These miles are treacherous and hard. And seemingly endless.
All of this contributes to the fact that by the time I get to the first hill (straight up past the lighthouse), I’m thrilled – for the novelty, the challenge, the difference, the ocean. But that doesn’t make the hill easy.
And while I was noticing this, I was also busy running up the hill. Not jogging, but running, sprinting. That steady pace I’d survived through for the first three miles was gone. The harder it got, the steeper it got, the harder I pushed and the faster I ran.
Et voilá. That’s my answer.
The uphills are going to come, right? There’s nothing we can do about them. And they’re going to be what they’re going to be:
- A 50 page website that needs to be written
- A month’s worth of blog posts
- An ebook you want to create and all the trappings that go with it (here’s how you do it, by the way affiliate link)
- Finding new clients
- Reaching out to a site with a guest post
- Getting out of bed
- Eating well
- Exercising
- I could go on and on and on…
The point is this: writing a blog post means writing 400 +/- words. It doesn’t matter if you take a month to do this or twenty minutes; it’s still 400 words that must be written. How quickly, efficiently, and well you complete the task is up to you.
How do I do it? Apparently, I look forward to the hills and then I sprint up and over them. Though sometimes I gather hardship, piling it as high as I can. And then, I stand at the bottom and freak out for a bit and complain and talk about my plans. I do this until the hill is a mountain. ‘Cause I like a challenge. And because I find easy to be excruciatingly boring.
image credit: Stiphy
I’m so there. (But then, you already knew that.)
And the view from the top is amazing. I’ve never done any uphill sprints in real life, but I’ve done my share of mountain climbing. The only ones I’ve ever regretted were the ones I failed to summit. That goes for my metaphorical mountains, too.
I find it fascinating to compare this post with one you wrote in January (and shared with me more recently than that). That one’s not about effort so much as emotion, which makes the stakes that much higher. In the end, though, your answer is the same.
I think that’s what makes you so successful. Whatever the mountain, your response is to climb it. And you sure do it in style.
.-= Aaron Pogue´s last blog ..About Page (Technical Writing Exercise) =-.
You little shit, Aaron – that just made me cry.
Thank you.
I can be a bit of a bastard sometimes. It’s just who I am.
You rock, Julie. We all know it.
.-= Aaron Pogue´s last blog ..About Page (Technical Writing Exercise) =-.
I enjoyed your analogy between running and writing. I do both myself, but never before saw the parallel.
Hi Susan! I’ve written a number of writing/running posts…let me know if you want me to find them for you…
Sure, Julie. I’ll take you up on your offer. Would enjoy reading your writing/running posts. I’m new to your blog. Good stuff!
.-= Susan Greene´s last blog ..Home =-.
Ask and you shall receive – here’s a handful:
http://writingroads.wpengine.com/2010/03/potholes/
http://writingroads.wpengine.com/2010/02/what-are-you-saving-it-for/
http://writingroads.wpengine.com/2010/01/racing-up-city-blocks/
http://writingroads.wpengine.com/2009/11/just-add-running-shoes/
Love the post. I’m the same, love a challenge. Doesn’t mean that there is that voice that tries to psyche me out or make me procrastinate, but I really do love the sense of accomplishment. People ask me how/why I blog everyday, and there are two answers, I like the way it makes me feel and I love the challenge of it!
.-= Andi´s last blog ..Talk to the Natives =-.
I just sit down and go. When I stop, I know I’m tapped. But I do it because I don’t give myself another choice. After all, bills must get paid.
.-= Alisa Bowman´s last blog ..What are your turn offs and turn ons? =-.
I ran cross-country and the 800 in high school & went to college on a track scholarship. Despite my relative success, it is surprising that no one was a more relunctant runner than me. I was motivated more by pride and saving-face than out of pure desire.
But man I could attack those hills! I practically lived for those effing hills. I knew I could conquer them and I didn’t mind killing myself on them. Pure desire.
I come across your blog today, interestingly, coming off a two month blogging break. Your post makes me realize, well it draws such an appropriate parallel for my heart. I’ve been spending a lot of time pacing around at the bottom, looking up at the hills of my life lately. Afraid of ……what? That I can’t do them??
Hmmmmm. My heart suddenly feels on fire cuz you just reminded me that no one can scramble or power up those hills better than me.
It’s a metaphor that will live in me. Thank-you.
PS–say ‘hi’ to Andi for me
.-= Laurie´s last blog ..I’m Back =-.
Laurie! That’a girl!!! I can only imagine what you could accomplish when you found a way to add passion and desire to the hill attacking…