There is this oddity that happens (my dad would categorize it under the ‘reversal theory’) with growing children. It goes like this: when they are extremely young (as in 4-6 months) they feel heavier when you carry them than they do when they’re a just a bit older (say 6-8 months). Even though they’re bigger and weigh more.
The reason is simple, it’s because these older babes are carrying their own weight. Their muscles are strong enough now to do so, whereas when they were smaller and lighter, they just hung in your arms. Like lumps of mashed potatoes. (minus the butter and sea salt, which is a tragic shame).
Making adjustments
This thought occurred to me when I was running this morning. I was trying to run my eight mile loop in my new cushionless shoes. But I ended up running 10. I couldn’t stop. And besides the shoes, I was trying out a new arm position because my pipes had been flying around by my chest pushing my shoulders up to my ears, causing some bad muscle cramps in my neck.
And the weirdest thing happened. When I lowered my arms, I became lighter and tighter. As if that one shift had pulled my body together in a way that lightened me perceptibly. And, as I said, I couldn’t stop running.
The self carry
I’ve been thinking about it all day, and I realized it was the same as the baby phenomenon. I certainly didn’t lose weight over the course of 10 miles, but I got lighter—because I was holding myself more efficiently and totally together, making me much easier to carry.
A simple shift—of the body, of the mind, on the mapped route. And suddenly, the ability to go farther, faster, stronger, easier. Holding my own self up. Look ma, no hands.
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And since I’m a non-active lump of potatoes, I must think of the perfect way to apply this excellent advice to my art making and writing…
Though the photo at the top of this post kinda creeped me out (just sayin) I loved this. Been doing the same thing, but in a different way today. Maybe the opposite, actually. Today, I am trying to carry myself with consciousness. Which means that every time I catch myself zoning off into fantasy, which, as it turns out, I do quite often, I stop, bring my attention back to the center of my belly, and feel myself in the present moment.
This is not an original idea – I borrowed (stole) it from Geneen Roth, from her book, Women, Food and God – but it is working for me. Big time.
Now, inspired by your post, I am going out to get me some cushionless shoes of my own – so I can add this practice to that one – and, while feeling my belly, carry a little bit more of my own weight.
The picture is totally creepy! When I saw it, I couldn’t resist.
I love what you said…isn’t it so, so, so all about the belly? And coming back again and again…
G’Day Julie,
I am so proud of myself because I’m resisting the temptation to provide gratuitous advice to lower your hips, shorten stride, reduce knee lift, keep your heels low and learn to meditate as you run. And leave those arms low.
You see, if I’d told you all that, it probably wouldn’t have worked because guys and gals have different builts.
Three little reminders:
remember what happened to James Fixx
don;t run in you slippers and. you gurssed it,
makesure you have fun.
Yours breathlessly
Leon
Great post, Julie. I think most of us tend to think of serving in the same way: it’s a burden; it’s something I ought to do; I owe it to the community. But when you’re serving in an area of passion and wholeheartedness, it’s like getting your arms in the right running position. Suddenly service doesn’t feel like a burden anymore. It’s energizing. As I like to say:
“Service is not the rent we pay for the space we take up on earth. Service is the fringe benefit, the icing on the cake, the gravy on the biscuits (or mashed potatoes, if you prefer) of Life.”
Oh! Thanks! That’s extremely cool!Thanks for being there for me…I like that about you! I’m so delighted you’re here.
That’s such a fascinating observation about babies feeling heavier! I’ve never thought about that reversal theory before. Thanks for sharing!
That “opposite of mashed potatoes” analogy really stuck with me! Great way to describe that feeling when the words finally flow. Thanks for sharing this.
It is interesting to think about the culinary opposite of mashed potatoes—perhaps a crisp, perfectly roasted potato with a satisfying crunch. Exploring different textures and cooking methods is a fun way to rediscover a classic kitchen staple.
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Interesting perspective on how posture affects perceived weight. Reminds me of efficiency in movement, much like optimizing character interactions in games.
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This is hilarious because my husband and I were just talking about this exact thing! Our 6-month-old definitely feels lighter than our niece who is only 4 months old. It’s one of those parenting mysteries that you can’t quite figure out. And honestly? After reading way too much parenting advice online that feels like it was written by an algorithm, I really appreciate you sharing these real observations. Your AI Slop Bores Me – so true! It’s refreshing to read something that actually feels human and relatable instead of another generic listicle. Thanks for putting this together!
Th?t thú v? khi ngh? v? món ?n theo h??ng ??i l?p nh? v?y! N?u khoai tây nghi?n mang l?i c?m giác m?m m?n, tan ch?y, thì nh?ng món khoai tây nguyên c? n??ng giòn r?m ho?c khoai tây chiên vàng óng l?i mang ??n tr?i nghi?m hoàn toàn khác bi?t v? k?t c?u. ?ôi khi ch? c?n thay ??i cách ch? bi?n m?t chút là ?ã có th? t?o ra m?t món ?n mang ??y s? m?i m? và thú v? cho b?a t?i.
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Sometimes we carry ourselves like lumps of potatoes when all we need is a tiny shift. Finding that groove feels like finding the ultimate Escape Road 2 out of our own heavy minds
Love how you look at food textures. Getting out of our comfort zone in the kitchen can be an absolute, fast-paced rush, kind of like a session of X Trench Run. Love this piece!
The explanations were easy to follow and well timed. I could move through the piece without needing to pause often.
I totally agree with the idea that “holding your own self up” makes you feel lighter, even when you’re not physically lighter at all. That moment when you shift your arms down and suddenly feel more efficient—like the article describes—resonates deeply. I’ve had similar experiences during long walks or runs when I finally relaxed my shoulders and let my core take over. The shift wasn’t just physical; it felt like a mental reset. I remember one early morning hike where my back was aching from gripping the air with tense arms. When I consciously lowered them, I didn’t just feel lighter—I noticed a real surge in stamina. It’s those small, mindful adjustments that truly transform the journey.
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I was totally surprised by that baby carrying theory, especially when reading how Julie Roads used a photo text remover to check her running posture. Did you know she ran ten miles just to test this out while sipping coffee on the balcony?
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I really like the idea that a tiny adjustment in posture can completely change how movement feels
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